6 Tahun Menikah & Akhirnya Hamil, Perjuangan Pasutri Ini Menyentuh Hati
"Melalui coretan singkat ini, kami berniat berbagi bahagia sehingga pada akhirnya bahagia ini bisa dirasakan oleh para pejuang buah hati." Inilah kalimat pembuka di postingan sebuah foto seorang bayi mungil dan manis menyertai kisah pasangan suami istri yang berjuang untuk mendapatkan keturunan yang akhirnya terkabulkan di usia pernikahan 6 tahun.
Ryano Koko adalah pemilik postingan ini. Dan ia rupanya menceritakan kisahnya sendiri. Setelah 6 tahun menunggu, berjuang, berusaha dan berdoa untuk mendapatkan buah hati, akhirnya ia bisa menimang buah hatinya sendiri. Banyak cara telah dilakukannya bersama pasangan demi mendapatkan momongan mulai dari menjaga pola hidup hingga melakukan program bayi tabung.
"Kami menikah pada 6 Mei 2011. Seperti pasangan lainnya, memiliki keturunan adalah dambaan, termasuk kami.
Di tahun awal pernikahan, belum tampak ada tanda-tanda kehamilan, bulan demi bulan kami lalui dengan hampa, lalu kami sepakat untuk berusaha lebih dan lebih dari sekedar menanti dan berdoa. Ada yang bilang 'if you want to have something you never had, You have to do something you never did," lanjut Ryano di postingannya.
Ya, usaha Ryano dan pasangan bukan usaha yang terbilang mudah. Ia menceritakan bagaimana ia memilih dokter terbaik untuk konsultasi program kehamilan. Bagaimana ia berjuang menjaga pola makan, pola hidup dan berbagai hal tentang kehamilan. Mengharukan, Tuhan mengabulkan doa dan usaha mereka. Buah hati yang dinanti telah tumbuh dan berkembang di janin istri.
"Tanggal 25 November 2017 lahirlah buah cinta kami/cahaya mata dengan proses persalinan normal, laki-laki. Penantian panjang dengan sabar , ikhtiar maksimal serta doa, Insya Allah akan mendapatkan hasil terbaik. Hampir 6 tahun menanti dengan rasa bercampur kami jalani dan dengan pemilihan dokter yang tepat, Allah memberikan karuniaNya, seorang cahaya Mata untuk kami.
Tuhan Tidak pernah menyalahi takdirNya, air dikasih gula pasti manis. Pastikan saja jika posisi kita di Palembang, tujuan Jakarta, setidaknya saat sadar anda di Lampung, di arah yang tidak keliru.
Tetap semangat." Tutup Ryano.
Mengenai kisahnya yang diposting di akun facebooknya ini, banyak netizen bangga serta tersentuh dengan perjuangannya bersama pasangan. Sejak diposting pada 16 Desember 2017, postingan ini telah dibagikan hingga 24,5 ribu kali, mendapat 22 like dan banjir komentar hingga 5,7 ribu komentar.
Netizen dengan akun Paramita Atmaja berkomentar, "Ya Allah, semoga dedek menjadi anak yang berbakti pada orang tua, serta di kemudian hari dapat menyelamatkan orang tua, dan diberi keberkahan, kelancaran urusan dunia akhirat. Selamat ibu/bapak." Netizen lain dengan akun Ika Bahtiar berkomentar, "Ya Allah, sampai terharu bacanya." "MasyaAllah, pengalaman hidup yang penuh ilmu, kesabaran dan penantian panjang yang berbuah manis. Semoga Nafthan menjadi anak yang sholeh ya nak, jadi kebanggaan orang tua. Makasih sudah berbagi ilmu dan pengalaman nya.' Tulis netizen dengan akun Melyani.
Selamat atas kelahiran buah hatinya Ryano. Terima kasih telah memberikan kisah pengalaman hidup yang mengesankan dan menyentuh. Darimu kami belajar, tak ada usaha dan perjuangan juga doa yang sia-sia selama kita melakukannya dengan sungguh-sungguh dan memasrahkan segala hasilnya padaNya.
The Struggle to Get the Long Awaited Baby
6 Years Married and Finally Pregnant, This Couple's Struggle Touches Hearts
"Through this short streak, we intend to share happiness so that in the end this happiness can be felt by warriors with children." This is the opening sentence in posting a photo of a tiny and sweet baby accompanying the story of a husband and wife who are struggling to get offspringwhich was finally granted at the age of 6 years of marriage.
Ryano Koko is the owner of this post. And he seems to be telling his own story. After 6 years of waiting, struggling, trying and praying to get a baby, finally she was able to rock her own baby. She has done many ways with her partner to get a baby, starting from maintaining a lifestyle to doing IVF programs.
"We got married on May 6, 2011. Like any other couple, having children is a dream, including us.
In the early year of marriage, there was no sign of pregnancy yet, month after month we went through empty, then we agreed to do more and more than just waiting and praying. Some say, 'if you want to have something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done,' continued Ryano in his post.
Ryano's post is viral and touches thousands of netizens on social media/copyright facebook.com/Ryano Koko
Yes, Ryano and his partner's business is not an easy one. He told how he chose the best doctor for the pregnancy program consultation. How she struggles to maintain diet, lifestyle and various things about pregnancy. Heartwarming, God grant their prayers and efforts. The long-awaited baby has grown and developed in the wife's fetus.
"On November 25, 2017 the fruit of our love was born with a normal delivery process, a boy. Long patient waiting, maximum effort and prayer, God willing, you will get the best results. Almost 6 years of waiting with mixed feelings for us to live and with the selection of the right doctor, Allah gave His gift, a light for our eyes.
God never violates His destiny, water given sugar must be sweet. Just make sure that our position is in Palembang, aiming for Jakarta, at least when you realize you are in Lampung, in the right direction.
Keep the spirit." Ryano concluded.
Regarding his story posted on his Facebook account, many netizens are proud and touched by his struggles with his partner. Since being posted on December 16 2017, this post has been shared up to 24.5 thousand times, received 22 likes and flooded comments of up to 5.7 thousand comments.
Netizens with the Paramita Atmaja account commented, "O Allah, may Dedek be a child who is devoted to his parents, and in the future be able to save his parents, and be given blessings, the smooth affairs of the afterlife. Congratulations, ladies and gentlemen." Another netizen with the Ika Bahtiar account commented, "Oh God, I'm moved to read it." "MasyaAllah, a life experience full of knowledge, patience and long wait that bears sweet fruit. Hopefully Nafthan will be a pious child, son, be the pride of his parents. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience.' Write a netizen with Melyani's account.
Congratulations on the birth of his baby Ryano. Thank you for providing a memorable and touching story of life experiences. From you we learn, there is no effort and struggle or prayer that is in vain as long as we do it in earnest and leave all the results to Him.